Ten years in Utah (gross), plus another year before my mission, and I am still weirded out by how bizarre Utah Mormon dating culture is. I can't do it. I was very romantic and idealistic in high school, though this was overshadowed by severe, then-undiagnosed (but blatantly obvious) social anxiety disorder. I would listen to Michael Franti and Spearhead like this song, which I'm listening to now: Now, I'm not a highly metaphysical man But I know when the stars are aligned, you can Bump into a person in the middle of the road Look into their eyes and you suddenly know. So if you had asked me if I believed in love at first sight, I would have said, without a question "absolutely". But then in Utah, you had people get married after only knowing each other for a few months. WHAT? When I first noticed this, my reaction was "EW, EW, EWWW! Love at first sight, yes. But no, NO! Not like THAT!" I can't even fully describe how much it freaked me out. CA...