Best article I've read in a while...

How to Deal With Doubt From Your Family by Adriana Sim 

I can't keep letting their doubts derail me. I got the lecture of "you need to focus on one thing" from my dad yet again yesterday, and it derailed and stressed me out so much that I woke up two hours late and couldn't focus on anything. I'm not letting this get in my way again. 

My mom: "you're using your interests as an excuse to avoid dating and relationships, even if you don't consciously realize it" (They're mad I'm not married with kids yet)

My dad: "you'd be more successful at writing if you stopped running, programming, and playing the piano"

It's crazy to me that we are pushed into so many activities as a kid in order to get into college, and then once we develop multiple passions, we are suddenly ridiculed for them. It makes zero sense. Critical parents will criticize everyone, though. I didn't really notice this until I left home. Everyone is someone to criticize and gawk at. 

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